Your decision to do this weight loss thing has GOT to be all about yourself, sweetie. Don't count on anything from your hubby, or from anyone else. The more you decide to dedicate yourself to living healthier, the more self-assured and "goddess-like" you'll feel, and the easier it will be for you to stick to your guns, no matter what anyone else does (or doesn't do).

You deserve to be healthy. You deserve to be happy. Curves is good - I know some folks here have had great success with it. :) It would be great if they could help you, too.

*snuggles*