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Ahhh, don't feel guilty. {{{hugs}}} I don't think he'd mind. He may even be glad that you're healing.

It's odd. I'm terrible at remembering anniversaries. I never remember friend's birthdays unless I have them written on the calendar, and I can't remember when my best friend of 20 odd years died -except that it was in the late fall - even though I was the one to find her after her heart attack. The only way I remember the time of year is that someone brought a rose from their garden to the service, I was surprised there was one in bloom so late in the year. I think you're right, it's what we do and say when they are living that counts, and the memories that we hold dear. Dates aren't the important thing.